Tuesday, January 26, 2016

Breaking Busy Book Review

"Okay, let me get this straight. Women are sacrificing sleep, recreation, hobbies, friends, and even family all at the altar of busyness. We we aren't sleeping, we aren't taking care of our bodies, and we aren't doing things we enjoy with the people we love. Then what in the world are we busy doing?" (Breaking Busy, pg. 21)
I'm so glad I had the opportunity to participate in this book launch! The words of Alli Worthington were what I needed to start off the New Year.

Very similar in idea to Emily Freeman's, Simply Tuesday and Bonnie Gray's, Finding Spiritual WhiteSpace; this book encourages us to not only discover ways we are wasting time,but how to live the life God has called us to without people pleasing (uh hmm, my anthem for this year.)

I enjoyed reading the examples she shared from her personal and business life, and how we can apply her breaking busy strategies to our own. I personally liked how relatable Alli is. If you are unfamiliar with her, she is huge in the blogging business world and comes across so personable, funny, and humble. She easily makes fun of herself while teaching us all a lesson from her fumbles.

The book is broken down into ten easy-to-read chapters (you won't believe what a fast read this book is!):
  1. Capacity- (Know your sweet spot in a world of crazy busy.) Basically, know yourself well enough to not over schedule yourself. Know your limits before you have a crazy meltdown. She used a great example of her iPhone. She knows her phone's capacity, how much info it can hold, and how long the battery will stay charged. We are the same way. Only we know how much we can take and we need to respect this limit and set boundaries for other people to respect it as well. Amen, anyone?
  2. Relationships- (Finding your connection in a world of acquaintances.) It's not the things of this world that will bring us purpose, peace, and happiness, but our relationships with those we love. So true.
  3. Calling- (Finding your purpose in a world of striving.) I loved this chapter! Finding our callings is one of the greatest gifts from God. Living out who we were made to be? Now, that's breaking busy-and living life on purpose!
  4. Editing-(Finding God's best in a world of options) "Here's the thing about breaking busy. Sometimes it calls for tough choices, for making drastic changes even in the places where you've been highly successful. I call these choices "edits."" Sometimes we have to trade good for great. And this will mean some hard, painful decisions will have to be made.
  5. Thoughts- (Finding your peace in a world of worry.) "...life is about our constant, ongoing choice to trust God." We can choose trust or anxiety and worry...our choice. Do you believe God is taking care of you?
  6. Traditions- (Finding your groove in a world of expectations.)What traditions do you need to let go of and make your own? What stresses you out and sucks the joy from you? Traditions are a good thing, but if they are done with the wrong motivation, i.e. keep up with the Joneses, then they shackle us with unrealistic expectations.
  7. Time-(Finding your rhythm in a world of overwhelm.) Managing our time is the most important thing we can do each day. Are you frazzled and overwhelmed trying to get it all done? Spend a couple of days making note of how much of your time is spent online mindlessly scrolling or watching Lip-Sync Battle on YouTube, ah hem. And what are you doing offline? You will be shocked to discover how much time you waste! "Our lives have gotten so cluttered up with things we think we "should" do, we can't figure out what we were meant to do."
  8. Decisions- (Finding your confidence in a world of choices.) In this chapter Alli introduces us to the Decision-Making Framework. It's the framework she uses to help make big decisions in her life. This is a great chapter on different ways, besides her own framework, to help make the best decisions in our lives.
  9. Communication- (Finding your voice in a world of noise.) Are you an over communicator or under(I won't tell you which one I am :))? Why don't we communicate better? Alli digs into some of the reasons in this chapter. And offers helpful suggestions. 
  10. Worth- (Finding your value in a world of never good enough.) "The lie the Devil wants me to believe, and you to believe, is that we are never going to live beyond the consequences of our actions." If the enemy can keep us busy trying to prove our worth to everyone we won't have time to live out our callings. We have to remember to whom we belong, and because we are His, we are valuable, worthy, and forgiven; we have worth!
There. If you read all the way through, yay!! This book is a keeper. Get your highlighter ready, because this is one book that is going to glow like a neon sign.

Alli's book is relevant to our world today, because we are all so much busier than we need to be. And her wisdom and advice is spot on.

One more thing...each chapter at the end has action steps for easy application of her suggestions.

Can you say book club friendly? Oh yeah. Perfect book club book.


About the Author:
Alli Worthington is a blogger, speaker, author and Co-Founder of  the former Blissdom conference; a conference for business entrepreneurs. She is currently the Executive Director of Propel Women. Alli is married and has five sons; therefore, she knows what busy means! Alli has a no-nonsense and sassy approach to business and life. Her goal is to help women live the life they were created to live.

Alli's book releases today, go grab your copy!!

psst! Speaking of book clubs once you have grabbed a copy of Breaking Busy, join God-sized Dreams this March. Breaking Busy is the next book! There may even be a book giveaway :).

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